My only child, a 40 year old son, whom I loved very much, was killed in a single car accident on St Patrick’s Day 4 years ago. His car side swiped a tree, and he was ejected at that point. I wanted something to mark that tree, and was so grateful to find this marker at afamilytree.com. Ann was very kind and understanding and worked with me until it was just as I wanted it. It doesn’t hurt the tree. I put it up more than 2 years ago and it looks as new today as it did at that time. I’m sure some people who pass on that road notice it, and I think of those as little moments as being ones he is remembered, even by strangers.