Her name is Beth, we have all called her Bethy her entire life 💗 she is my twin and passed at 38 yrs old in a car accident 😢 My mother is a bird lover and the day we got the news of her passing she was in the middle of a move to a new house. The day after the accident a cardinal appeared and has been coming back to visit her at the new house everyday since. It is said that when a cardinal appears a loved one is near, hence the request for the cardinal on the cross.